Shy @ 06.02.2020 10:08
Nobriedušais, manu prāt šī priekš tevis nebūs īstā diskusija! (Pārāk gudrs priekš mums sievišķiem) ?? tur jau tā lieta, ka man ar dzīves uztveri viss labi! Problēmas nemeklēju, citus nenolieku, tikai mēģinu saprast, kas Tev ir iekodis? Naids pret cilvēkiem vispārināti, varbūt tik ļoti vīlies sievietēs? Ja jau tik ļoti jāmeklē kautkādas sliktās iezīmes cilvēkos, kurus pat nepazīstim bet spried pēc teikumiem, kas izrauti no konteksta!
The king, Of cosmo! ???
Nu vo, atkal manipulācija.
Tur tā lieta. Kur es nolieku cilvēkus? Pateikt patiesību par cilvēku ir nolikt viņu? Tiešām? Tas nav nekāds izrauts kontekst, tā ir jūsu pilna atbilde saturoša tīri vienīgi manipulācijas.
Šobrīd jūs mēģināt mani diskreditēt.
Atkal griežamies pie teorijas:
https://blogs.psychcentral.com/psychology-self/2017/09/narcissistic-projection/
Calling you things that you are not
Narcissists often feel a need to compete with others since they are factually not that special and terribly insecure on top of it.
Whenever a narcissistic person feels threatened, they will call you the things that they themselves are as or are afraid that others see them as. And then they will try to stalk you, slander you, or discredit you. They will try to sabotage and destroy you. They will start a smear campaign and attempt character assassination. In their mind, frighteningly, you have become their mortal enemy.
They also have no problem doing all of it preemptively and calling it defense.
So if you privately call them out, set healthier boundaries, or end the relationship, they may be afraid that you can see their flaws, or that you will tell others what kind of person they are. Whether you do that or not is not important to them. Because in their mind the mere possibility of it is a good enough excuse to label you as an enemy. And because a narcissistic type of person has little or no empathy, they may imagine that you will behave as they would in these situations. If they would lie, or more likely are already lying, they will accuse you of lying.
A common narcissistic strategy is to play the victim. “You hurt me! Poor, poor me.” Instead of working through the issue with you or internally, they have no problem dragging others into it by lying and painting you as the perpetrator and themselves as the victim.
Vēl vajag diagnozi? ?
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